21. You Are 100% Worthy

On this week's episode of The Wealthy Woman's podcast I want to have a heart-to-heart about something that's super important – your worthiness.

We'll discuss how embracing your worthiness could revolutionize your approach to life and money.  In just about 15 minutes, you'll be armed with fresh insights and a new perspective that could truly make a difference in how you see yourself and others around you.  

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Welcome to the wealthy woman's podcast, a podcast for high achieving women who are great at making money, but struggle to build wealth. You'll learn how to take control of your money, increase your net worth, and make more. Ladies, it's time to create more money and more freedom. Let's dive in. Well, hello there. Welcome, everybody. Welcome to episode number 21. Today, we're going to talk about something that has been really on my heart lately. And I want to just make sure you all know how worthy you are like you are 100% worthy, you are 100% enough. And there is nothing in this world that is too good for you. And there's nothing in this world that is going to make you more worthy. Okay. And so that is what we're going to talk about today. But before we get into it, I want to make sure you all are aware that tomorrow, we are kicking off the summer savings challenge inside of the wealthy woman's Academy. This savings challenge is all about helping you to end 2023 I know we're towards the end of 2023. You all and I want you to end it with way more money than you started it with. So I want you to reflect Did you have some financial goals at the beginning of the year? If you did, how are you doing regarding those goals. If you're not where you want to be, then you should definitely consider joining the summer savings challenge are kicking off things tomorrow. Now, if you didn't have financial goals at the beginning of the year, that's okay. It's not too late, you can set a goal to have a certain amount of money by the end of the year. And you can do that inside of the summer savings challenge that we're kicking off tomorrow. Now I know some of you may have questions. So what I've done is I've opened up my calendar for you to book a call with me to talk about the wealthy woman's Academy and to see if it's a good fit for you, you may have questions, you may want to ask me something. Let's talk because I don't want you to just think about doing this, I want you to make a decision, either a decision to say yes, I'm drawing a line in the sand and I'm about to change my finances for the better starting tomorrow, or no, I'm not ready to change. Either way, it's okay. But I want you to decide, okay, and if I can help you make that decision, I'm not going to make it for you. But I can help answer any questions you have. At the end of the day, the decision is yours, and I want to be there to support you and making that decision. Okay. So let's go ahead and hop into today's topic. So as I said, when we first started, I want to talk to you all about your worthiness. I want you to know that you are worthy of any desire that you have. You are worthy of any righteous desire that you have. Let me define what I mean by righteous desire. It's a desire that will benefit you and it will not hurt anyone else. Right? Not only are you worthy of those types of desires, but I know for sure that God is friendly towards your goals. He's friendly towards your dreams and those desires that you have. There is nothing, not one thing in this world in this life that is too good for you. There's no experience that's too good for you. If you want to fly first class or private or any of those kinds of things. If you want to be on a yacht, you are worthy of that it's not too good for you. There's no lifestyle that's too good for you. There's no handbag that's too good for you. If you want to carry a Birkin or Chanel or any of those kinds of bags, they are not too good for you. You are worthy of those things, right. There is not a store on this planet that you are not worthy enough to walk in. You can walk in any store in the world and you are worthy enough to be there. Okay, so I really want that to sink in that you are worthy. I do believe sometimes we don't think we're worthy. We're not good enough. We could think that because of our gender that we don't belong. We could think that because of our race. We could think that because of our economic status of how we grew up who our parents are our education level, none of those Those things none of those circumstances determine your worthiness your worthiness was given to you on the day you were born. When you became a human on this earth, you were born with all the worthiness, all of it. So you are good enough and worthy enough to be anywhere you want to be, to have any thing you want to have, and to experience anything you want to experience. As I said earlier, you are God's creation, you are made in the image of that you are worthy, and you are good enough, this is non negotiable, there is no room for argument here, there's no room for disagreement. Now, you can disagree with me if you don't feel that way. But just because you disagree with me, doesn't mean I'm wrong. Right? It just means you're misinformed. You are worthy period. Now on the other hand, I also want you to know that things, places and experiences do not make you worthy, or more worthy. Sometimes we get a twist it, we think that oh, if I carry this bag, or if I live in this neighborhood, or if I drive this car, then that's going to make me you know, belong, that's going to make me worthy, that's going to make me that's going to prove to the world that I'm good enough that I have arrived, your worthiness is secure, you can't add to it. And you definitely can't take away from it. But you can't add to it, right. But sometimes we put ourselves in financial distress, buying things that we are not financially prepared for, because we aren't secure in our worthiness. So we think we need to go buy this thing, we need to drive this car, we need to live in this house, we need to carry these bags, we need to travel this way, in order to prove that we're worthy or to feel like we belong, but we again are misinformed. When you are secure in your worthiness that you don't get it twisted, you don't put yourself in financial distress in order to prove a point to you or to anybody else. Okay, because here's the thing, we think that certain clothes, shoes, handbags, clubs, organizations, neighborhoods, and experiences make us more worthy or prove that we belong to the group or that we have arrived, as I said, or that we're part of the upper middle class or the upper echelon, right? Like, none of those things make you more worthy. Remember, you are already worthy. I am just as worthy as you are and you are just as worthy as I am. It doesn't matter how much money you make, it doesn't matter how much money you have, it doesn't matter your complexion, it doesn't matter your ethnicity, it doesn't matter your marital status. If you have kids or not, none of that matters, you are still worthy, and nothing else can add to it. Okay? The truth is because we are humans created by God, you are 100% adequate, you are 100% secure, you are abundant, you have the ability to create abundance, and you just are abundant, you are good enough, you are beautiful, you are powerful and creative. Your worthiness is untouchable, your enoughness is untouchable. So if this is true, then we can stop putting ourselves in financial hardships. To prove a point, we can stop doing this. In order to feel like we belong, we can stop doing this to keep up with the Joneses. We can stop doing these things. To prove that we are a part of the in crowd right. We can just rest in our good enoughness. Now this doesn't mean that we don't buy things or treat ourselves to amazing experiences. So if you've been listening to me long enough, you already know that I value. Being the money coach that helps my clients take control of their money and build wealth and still experience life to the fullest. I want you to buy some things. I want you to have fun. I want you to experience life the way you want to experience it. I want you to make your desires and dreams and goals a reality. But I don't want you to do it at your financial expense where you're putting yourselves in financial binds and financial distress, only to keep up with what society says makes you great or makes you worthy because your worthiness is untouchable is 100% secure. So in that case, you can desire you can set goals and plan to make them happen. And you don't have to rush to get there. Because the truth is there is not better than hear the saying, you know, the grass is not always greener. On the other side, a lot of times that's used to talk about like, you know, if somebody wants to leave their partner for someone else, but you can also think about it in terms of experiencing different different things financially, like we may think, Oh, when I live in that neighborhood, or when I combine these things, then I'm going to feel happier, then I'm going to feel worthy, then I'm going to be enough. But we got that twist it, because there isn't that better than here. Tomorrow has its own set of problems over there has its own set of problems. And when you get over there, by going into debt, robbing your savings or for going saving, and for going investing, when you do get over there, you're gonna have all kinds of financial consequences to contend with. And you're not even going to be able to fully enjoy having the things. So I highly suggest that you dream, you set goals, you continue to want, you can continue to desire things. But we do those things, when we are financially prepared to do it, we set an interest on something, we plan to make it happen, and then we get to enjoy it fully. So we're not putting ourselves in financial hardships or in financial binds in order to experience something sooner because we think if we experience it or habit, then that's going to make us more worthy, that's going to make us feel good enough, that's going to make us belong, that's just a fallacy is not true. Because when you get it, especially anything material, nothing material can feel the void, that you may be feeling. If you feel like you're not worthy. If you feel like you're not good enough, if you feel like you don't belong, another handbag is not going to fill that void that is a void that comes from you just being misinformed about who you really are. So that's why I started this podcast, reminding you of who you are, you are God's creation, you are amazing. You are 100% worthy, you are 100% adequate period. So if you can believe that, then that boy that you feel that makes you want to spend uncontrollably and always want the next thing because you think that's gonna fill that void, subconsciously, that's what you're thinking, then you can let all of that go. And just rest in who you truly are. And then take control of your money, start to plan and you're going to still experience the things you want to experience. But you're going to be able to fully enjoy it because there are no negative financial consequences waiting for you on the back end, because you weren't in a rush because you didn't move faster than you were ready to move. Okay, so we want you to still set interest on things planned for it, make it happen, and then enjoy it fully. without regrets. And without financial hardships and consequences on the back end. Remember, you are 100% worthy, good enough, adequate and amazing and nothing can add to your worthiness. Nothing, nothing can add to it. And certainly nothing can take away from it. Right? I want you to believe this, believe it to your core, play this podcast over and over again until you start to actually believe what I'm saying. It's a short one. It's about 15 minutes. So play it over and over again this week. Remember who you are. And there's nothing on this earth that can make you better, because you're already amazing. All right. I hope you have a beautiful week. Check with you next time. Bye bye. Hey, before you go, if you're ready to create a life with more money and more freedom, then you're invited to join the wealthy woman's Academy, my signature coaching program where you'll learn how to take control of your money and build wealth without sacrificing your lifestyle. To get started, head on over to Germaine foley.com/ww. That's Jermaine. We'll see you over there. Bye bye.